Love–The Remedy for Discouragement

I set two goals for the month of June:

1. Finish the rewrite on my novel.

2. Take a picture every day about my word for 2017,  Love. Share the pictures on Instagram. 

For 30 days I wondered, will I be able to find evidence of love today? Something picture-worthy? Where? How? When?

And every day I’d catch a glimpse of something and feel a little nudge inside my heart.

~Fresh peaches from Thompson Family Farms~

~Our hammock~

~Summertime petunias~

~The American flag and the last gardenia~~

~Thomas and Brittany’s wedding~(taken by Kylie Martin Photography)

~The rainbow on Father’s Day when the newlyweds invited us to their house for dinner~

~A blank page in my journal~

~Another porch party~

~On June 26th I finally finished my novel. I had it printed and snapped a picture of the box containing the 356 pages~

~I asked someone to edit it and kicked back in the hammock to celebrate~

Three days later, I read through the edit and discovered I have some more work to do.

I need to go deeper. 

One of my characters hasn’t completely opened her heart to me. 

Feeling discouraged, I dumped out the pages on my desk and had a good talk with myself. 

Why is this novel so important to me? Why am I writing it?

Then it dawned on me.  

I write for the same reason I took 30 pictures. 

Because of love. 

Love compels me. 

Love for my characters.  Love for my readers.  Love for God. 

I write because I love. And love is stronger than discouragement. Click to tweet.

The next morning I lit my candles, knelt beside my desk, and prayed a simple prayer. 

Lord, I need You. Will You pour Your love through me today? 

Are you feeling discouraged about something? Look for signs of love. And remember~~

Discouragement doesn’t come from God. Ever. He’s a God of hope. Always. click to tweet

Praise the Lord! He is good. God’s love never fails. Psalms 136:1 click to tweet

Each one of you means so much to me. Thank you for your friendship and for giving me grace with the blog. I’ll be back the first Wednesday in August.

So much love,



My Friend Lynne

Last year at the ACFW conference one of my silver sandals broke right before the semi-formal dinner on Saturday night.

What to do?

Lynne Gentry rushed over like an experienced ER doctor. “We need duct tape. Quick.”

Within seconds, she returned with a roll of just the right shade of silver duct tape. As the crowd began filing in, Lynne Gentry reinvented my left sandal and sealed our friendship forever. I’ll never forget her kindness.

Lynne’s debut novel, Reinventing Leona, just came out and I love it! Talk about unforgettable people–I woke up this morning missing the book characters. It’s that good. It’s written in a way that made me want to call my novel-loving friends and say, “Listen to this sentence….”

May I introduce you to my friend Lynne? Here’s her book cover. Don’t you love it?

And here’s what the back cover says:

“Leona Harper loves being a pastor’s wife. Her impressive resume touts thirty years of coaxing hot water from rusty parsonage plumbing, planning church potlucks, and standing beside her husband while members take potshots at his sermons. Except for the little tiff with her grown children, Leona feels her life is right on track with the wishes of the Almighty…until her husband drops dead in the pulpit.

When the church board decides to fill the Reverend’s vacated position Leona is forced to find a paying job, mend her fractured family, and tackle her fears. With life spiraling out of control, Leona might find the church members antics comical if she weren’t so completely panicked. Can the faith of an overwhelmed widow withstand the added heartache of two resentful children and several underhanded church members? If Leona can’t trust God, how will she learn to trust herself?”

Welcome, Lynne. Tell us, what brings our protagonist to the point of changing?

Circumstances beyond her control. Like many of us, Leona doesn’t like change. But none of us escape the twists and turns of life. Whether it’s the loss of a spouse of the loss of a thirty-year career, nothing stays the same.

Humor is tough to write, but you did a spectacular job, especially considering dear Leona’s  circumstances. Any writing secrets you’d like to share?

Learning to laugh, especially at myself, has helped me cope with the scrutiny that comes to those living in a glass house. But as a minister’s wife, it’s not always appropriate for me to say what I’m thinking, let alone laugh out loud. So, with the quirky cast in Mt. Hope, I get to say and do all sorts of things a good pastor’s wife would never say or do, but I often think. And I’m happy to report that laughter is good for the soul.

Where did you get the incredible idea to reinvent Leona?

I watched three of my older friends lose their husbands. Two of them regrouped, rebuilt, and reinvented their lives. One shriveled up and died in a nursing home. Observing their choices made me ask, what if tragedy struck me? What would I do? Do I have the spiritual chops to pick myself up and start over? Could I trust God to lead me through a dark valley?

Find out how you can purchase Reinventing Leona here, at Lynne’s website.

Thank you so much, Lynne. It’s been an honor. I can’t wait to see you again in September at the American Christian Fiction Writers Conference.

P.S. My dress is black and green. I’ll probably wear black shoes. Bring coordinating duct tape, please ma’am.